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SCARED HE'LL CHEAT

I’ve been with a good guy for the last year but I’m scarred from a previous relationship

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17th April 2018, 9:37 pm
Updated: 17th April 2018, 9:37 pm

DEAR DEIDRE: I KNOW in my heart that my partner won’t cheat but I still look through his phone to be sure and it’s causing friction between us.

I’ve been with him for a year. I’m 31 and he’s 29.

Scared my boyfriend will cheat so I look through his phone
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Scared my boyfriend will cheat so I look through his phone

He’s a really great guy but I guess I’m still left with scars from the past.

I lived with a man who cheated on me with a mutual friend.

I forgave him for that but he then did it again with another mate and got her pregnant.

I’m paranoid now that I’ll get hurt again. I’m my own worst enemy and I will lose him for sure if I keep on like this.

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One of both partners in almost a third of all relationships is, or has been, a cheat.

Ultimately, they usually stay put.

Email me at [email protected] for my e-leaflet Your Lover Not Free? which can help you decide how to handle your love triangle.

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DEIDRE SAYS: You may do. It’s natural to be wary of being hurt again but going through your boyfriend’s phone isn’t the way to deal with your doubts.

Tell him, as you said to me, that you know he won’t cheat but you still feel afraid.

Ask him for a hug whenever you feel insecure. You may also want to seek counselling if your worries won’t leave you alone.

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